Whether you are new to being married to a police officer, just dating one, a veteran spouse, or trying to figure out if this lifestyle is for you or not, it can sometimes feel scary. But I am here to tell you it doesn't have to be. Not all the time anyway. Are there aspects associated with a police officer's job that are worrisome? Yes, of course. But does your whole life need to be centered around doom and gloom? Absolutely, not, my friend! I know that conversations with friends and family, turning on the news and scrolling social media can bring unwanted thoughts and put you down a Click for more
This credit union offers exclusive benefits to law enforcement and their families
This is a sponsored post on behalf of The Police Credit Union of California. All opinions are honest and my own. We have been a law enforcement family for over 15 years and never once have we expected discounts or special benefits for my husband's career. However, knowing that there are companies or institutions out there that recognize the sacrifices law enforcement officers (and their families) make and want to provide benefits to them, is more than appreciated. A little thank you goes such a long way and we have definitely gravitated towards companies that show their support to law Click for more
The Best Financial Tips for California Law Enforcement Officers
This is a sponsored post on behalf of The Police Credit Union of California. All opinions are honest and my own. If there is one thing that I know about law enforcement officers (and their spouses) is that they like to be prepared. That preparedness comes in many forms. In your career, at the range, while driving, the safety of your home, the protection of your family, just to name a few. But let's not forget about your finances. Being financially prepared and banking with a financial institution that cares about the same level of preparedness with your money as you do is important. Click for more
The MEGA list of Law Enforcement Discounts
Some of the links in this post are sponsored or affiliate links. *Disclaimer: Companies change their discounts frequently. This post will be updated as soon as we are aware of any changes. I only list discounts for those companies that have such discounts listed on their website(s). I am also not affiliated with any of the companies listed in any way. I am simply sharing discounts offered. I will say that as a law enforcement family, we NEVER expect a discount of any kind. We truly appreciate any discounts or rewards programs that are available and this is a post to share that appreciation Click for more
40+ songs for law enforcement-for every occasion
*I do not own the rights to any of this music* A huge thank you to my fellow police wives that helped me compile this list! I absolutely love listening to music and no matter what my emotion is, music tends to make me feel better. So I am always looking for songs that relate to my situation or my current emotion. I also love playing music on our Amazon Alexa or Echo while I am doing dishes or cooking. As a police wife, I also love to find music with a more "law enforcement song" feel. Some songs are supportive of our first responders, but others are just encouraging or inspiring and Click for more
The Best Devotional for Hope and Strength During the War on Cops
The past two years have been nothing short of difficult for law enforcement officers and their families. We've gone through and witnessed vile hatred towards cops, media spun lies, defunding of police and much more. But as families, it can be hard to sit back and watch this all happen. We already deal with loneliness from the job, single but married parenting, unsupportive friends and family, fear, just to name a few. If you are searching for hope and strength during the war on cops and the law enforcement lifestyle, then look no further. The Best Devotional for Hope and Click for more
Top Law Enforcement Lingo and Acronyms for Police Spouses and Families
Maybe your spouse just went through the police academy and now you are hearing acronyms and lingo you've never heard before. I get it- my head was spinning my husband's first year in the academy trying to grasp what he was saying. Or maybe you are a veteran spouse and your spouse is STILL saying them. Lol! I get that also! Either way, here are some top acronyms and lingo you may hear from your officer and what they mean! Top Law Enforcement Lingo and Acronyms FTO- Field Training Officer You will hear this one a lot, especially as your spouse leaves the academy. Your officer Click for more
The Best Way to Protect Your Home as a Law Enforcement Family
I am an affiliate with ADT. I earn a commission if you sign up through my link with no extra cost to you. Yes, even law enforcement families need home protection and security. Honestly, after the craziness that we have seen the past year and a half, law enforcement families may need the added security even more. I, of course, feel incredibly safe when my husband is home and off duty, but when he is working, I absolutely want that extra security. Unfortunately, many law enforcement families I know have gotten threats (or their officer received one on the job), received odd phone Click for more
How First Responders Can Keep Vests, Gear and Uniforms Smelling Fresh During Summer Heat
This is a sponsored post on behalf of Arrest My Vest. All opinions are honest and my own. It is no doubt that first responders can have some stinky gear, uniforms, vests and boots. But goodness, the summer heat brings on a new level of stink that can be hard to beat! And the last thing you want is to bring those smells into your car or home. Or worse, never get the smell out and wear the same stinky vest and uniform day after day. Here are some tried and true ways to keep all vests, gear, uniforms and more smelling fresh and clean year round (especially during those hot Click for more
Top Products for Showing Support to Law Enforcement- Check Them Out!
This is a sponsored post on behalf of Blue Line Heroes. All opinions are honest and my own. It's no doubt that law enforcement has had a rough year (okay, maybe even a few years). Whether it is hard calls, long hours, hate from the media and non-supporters, it's not an easy job on officers or their families. And whether you are a family member of an officer, a friend, or a supporter finding little ways to show support to law enforcement or show your pride for the profession can make a huge impact. Here are some products that help you show off your pride or support for the brave men Click for more
How to Build Financial Strength as a First Responder Couple
This post is sponsored by Financial Cop. All opinions are honest and my own. If you are reading this then chances are high that you or your spouse are a first responder. And let's be honest, first responders don't do the job for the money. However, that doesn't mean that you can't build a solid financial future with the money that you do have. Personally, my husband has been in law enforcement for 15 years and I don't want him to have to work in this high-stress job forever. I would much rather we make smart financial choices now so that we can enjoy retirement early and together. If Click for more
Ways to Honor and Remember Fallen Police Officers
National Police Week falls during the week of May 15th every year (the actual dates surrounding the week change every year) but May 15th is always National Peace Officer's Memorial Day. Police Week is a time to honor and remember officers who have paid the ultimate sacrifice. It is not meant to be a celebratory week but instead to honor and give support. But you also don't need a special week to honor and remember those we have lost- you can do it any day of the year. So how can you honor and remember fallen officers? Any thought goes a long way but here are a few ideas to Click for more
Top Ways to Relieve Neck and Back Pain for First Responders
This post is sponsored by Teeter. All opinions are honest and my own. Many first responders, including my husband, experience neck and back pain from the job. Why? Long shifts, standing for hours on end, sitting in uncomfortable vehicles, heavy duty belts, bulletproof vests... I could go on and on. But these are the top reasons so many first responders experience chronic neck and back pain. Obviously, if the pain is chronic or severe, a doctor should be seen. If no medical conditions are noted, then finding relief in a natural, healthy way is important. With unpredictable shifts Click for more
What You Need to Know About National Police Week This Year
National Police Week is normally held every year in May in Washington, DC. May 15th is designated National Peace Officer's Memorial Day and the dates of National Police Week change slightly but are always during the week of May 15th. Police Week is a time to honor and remember those who lost their lives in the line of duty. As well as, give support to the survivors and law enforcement who currently serve. However, due to restrictions, in-person events can not be held as normally scheduled during May 2021. Instead, all in-person events for National Police Week will be rescheduled to Click for more
What It’s Like When People Talk about Law Enforcement but They Say “I Don’t Mean Your Officer”
There is no question that law enforcement has been in the news and media increasingly more compared to past years. People have also become much more vocal about how they feel about law enforcement especially on social media. I think it is incredibly important for people to voice their opinion and to have discussions which can help further educate them on any topic. But just like various topics, there are a lot of generalizations being made about law enforcement that simply are not true. When People Say "I Don't Mean Your Officer" What many law enforcement officers and Click for more
3 Ways to be Financially Prepared as a Law Enforcement Couple
This post is sponsored by The Police Credit Union. All opinions are honest and my own. When I think of law enforcement officers one word comes to mind: prepared. They are known for mentally preparing for a situation before it even happens. Police are also physically ready for any situation they may face by either having gear on their person or in their vehicle. They also always have a plan, then they have a back-up plan, in case that first plan fails or an emergency arises. And this need for preparedness isn't just while on duty. The idea of always being ready transfers into many Click for more
Adorable Police-Themed Baby Gifts
We have three children, and goodness, I don't remember seeing so many cute police-themed gifts on the market when they were babies. From blankets to outfits to adorable toys, they seem to have it all nowadays! Whether you are expecting yourself, want to surprised the mom or dad-to-be with an adorable police-themed present or just want to gift the little one in your life with something cute, below are some great options. And, they are from a number of stores, including: small police-owned shops, Etsy and Amazon. Adorable Police-Themed Baby Gifts Police-Themed Click for more
The Best Way to Get Rid of Smells from Uniforms & Gear
This is a sponsored post for Arrest My Vest. All opinions are honest and my own. I've talked about ways to get the odor and sweat smell out of vests before but what about those under shirts, uniforms, gear and more? Our officers are working in extreme circumstances, whether that is the heat, the cold, car accidents, or being exposed to bodily fluids, it happens and it happens more often that one may think. So beyond normal washing or dry cleaning, what can you do to really rid uniforms, gear and more from unwanted smells and odors? Tips for Taking Smells out of Uniforms, Click for more
The Perfect Gift Option for the Police Officer That Has It All
This is a sponsored post on behalf of The Shieldbox. All work is honest and my own. If you are looking for a gift option for the police officer in your life look no further. First, raise your hand if your spouse asks for the same thing every year! Me! Me! I get the typical "I don't need anything" or "anything tactical or guns and ammo". Well, those answers usually leave me stumped year after year. So this year I wanted to find a gift that encompasses all things he loves and he would actually use. While there are many law enforcement gift guides out there with great ideas Click for more
3 DIY Thin Blue Crafts and Gifts
Any chance to create an easy DIY project, I am game! Last year I made these thin blue line ornaments but wanted to create something a little different this year. So why not go for 3 new ideas in one blog post? I love creating ornaments especially since my kids aren't bringing any home from school this year now that they are virtual. So below are tutorials for two thin blue line ornaments and one easy gift idea! Let's start with the two ornaments! How to Make Thin Blue Line Scrap Ribbon Ornaments: First, let's gather your materials. Here is what you need: -Sticks from Click for more
Support for the Police Wife/Girlfriend During the War on Cops
Police wife/girlfriend, I understand what you are going through because I am you. I am a police wife of fourteen years and never have I seen the hate for law enforcement like I do today. Some days are worse than others, but it does not ever seem to get better. I know sending your officer out into the world given the current circumstances is terrifying, but please know, we can not live in fear. Here are my best tips for navigating the current climate whether you are a new police wife, veteran, or girlfriend. How to Navigate the War on Cops as a Police Click for more
Law Enforcement Families are Being Censored on Social Media and We’ve Had Enough
This is a topic I really debated writing about because honestly, I like to keep what I write positive for the law enforcement community. But censorship is happening to the law enforcement community and at a more frequent rate so here we are. I've had enough of it and so has the law enforcement community. If you are on social media accounts regularly like Facebook, Instagram, Pinterest and even YouTube and you are a law enforcement family then you may have noticed an uptick in censorship on these platforms, too. This may be on your own account or on accounts you follow. While many can and Click for more
The Ultimate Holiday Gift Guide for Law Enforcement
This is a sponsored post by Arrest My Vest. All work is honest and my own. I love surprising others with gifts especially around the holidays, but I find my husband to be one of the hardest people to buy for. He often needs or asks for gifts that are be work related and I draw a blank. So for this year, I worked with him to compile a comprehensive gift guide that is great for any police officer! So let's dive in! The Ultimate Gifts for Law Enforcement Arrest My Vest Spray This is hands-down the BEST odor eliminating spray ever! We not only use it on my husband's Click for more
Being a Law Enforcement Family During the War on Cops
Do I want a cookie because my husband is a police officer? No. This isn't about me. It is about our entire law enforcement community. Every child of a police officer, every mother, every father, every spouse, every sister or brother, and the entire brotherhood of cops around America. This is about the war on cops. To some that don't know law enforcement personally or can't see past the false narrative driven by the media, it may seem like this war doesn't exist. But it absolutely does and this war isn't exactly new either. It is just getting worse. What It is Like Being a Law Click for more
Non-Profits that Serve the Law Enforcement Community
Giving back to the law enforcement community is near and dear to my heart. There is a long list of non-profits that work hard to give back to our community that many don't know about. So whether you are in a position to give back and donate to one of these non-profits or you are a law enforcement family and need services or help from a police non-profit, I hope you find this list helpful. Non-Profits that Serve the Law Enforcement Community FRBA-First Responder Benefit Association Chris Kyle Frog Foundation- CKFF Under the Shield Foundation HIGHLY recommend the Click for more
Brands & Companies that Show Support to Law Enforcement
Disclaimer: At the time of publication of this post, the websites listed in this article expressed support or discounts to law enforcement/first responders on their websites. We are not responsible if their views, discounts or website wording changes. There is no better time than now to compile a list of brands and companies that show support for law enforcement. Also, be sure to check back often as we add and update this post when we hear of more law enforcement supportive companies. Law enforcement families love supporting brands and businesses that support us and many of you have Click for more
How to Stay a Positive Police Spouse when it Feels like the World is Against Police Officers
In all my years as a police wife (13 to be exact), I have never struggled and seen other police spouses struggle as much as we are this year. We know support for law enforcement exists, but some days all we see or feel are those who are against police. It can feel like everyone hates them when in reality the bad people and horrible events are just drowning out the good. During such challenging times, I think a few things are important to remember. First, we have to focus on what we can control. If we are letting the negativity of the world control us and our emotions then we are Click for more
Black vs. Blue: Do We Need to “Pick Sides”?
Post written by: an anonymous follower and fellow police wife. This idea of Black vs. Blue is something I never thought I would feel the need to address. But before I get into in all that, let me tell you a bit about me. I am a 32-year-old successful Hispanic female who was born in Colombia and adopted at 7 weeks old. I am also married to an incredible black man who has a career in law enforcement. Growing up, my parents always promoted my Colombian background as much as they could. But before turning 18 and going to college, I had only ever had a few Asian friends, 1 Hispanic Click for more
Social Media Privacy Tips that Every Police Wife Should Take Now
Given the current climate surrounding law enforcement, privacy for police wives is imperative. We must take the proper precautions to make our social media pages and accounts more private. Last year I wrote a blog post all about keeping your officer's information private on the internet but sadly, we are now in the day and age where, we as spouses, need to be very careful, too. I know we can't live in fear but we should never be in a position where our privacy is questioned. There are safe ways to stay in contact with people you trust, have a positive social media experience all while Click for more
Tips for Starting your Own Police Spousal Group
This is honestly such a popular question that I get asked ALLLL the time. Mostly from police wives that want to start a local spousal group through their agency or in the area where their spouse works. And it is no wonder that this is such a popular question: as spouses of police officers, we need support. Most of us long for friendship with others that experience the same journey as us. We are looking for people who "get it". Spousal groups can be so beneficial and wonderful if done in the right way. They can not only be a great way to find friendship but they can also serve to be an Click for more