This is the ALL access course that will help you make the most of your time with your spouse, learn how to communicate in just 20 minutes a day and keep your relationship on sizzle.
You not only need to learn to communicate when you are with your partner but also when you are apart. Conflicting schedules can make it feel like our communication is failing.
When our communication is failing so is the connection in our relationship. It often leads to a disconnect or conflict.
When you are forced to constantly play catch up on days off and talk about the logistics in your relationship rather than create meaningful memories together then you aren't making the most of your time.
Communication is REALLY about connection. When we have to talk in sound bytes over several days because of crazy schedules and long hours, our communication and connection can suffer. It can result in a disconnect, conflict or tension and it can be just as hard for your law enforcement relationship to get back on track.
With 20 Minutes to Connection, we will help you lay out exactly what causes these challenges and disconnect in your relationship and provide you with a road map to get your relationship back on track.
Vulnerability is the willingness to be open. When we have been hurt or feel like we are walking on eggshells with our partner then our willingness to be open can decrease causing a disconnect in our relationship.
Sometimes we have a picture in our minds that our relationship should go a certain way. For example, that we would have dinner every night as a couple. But when this lifestyle doesn’t lend itself to those “9-5” life examples we are forced to grieve a life we can’t have. If we aren’t grieving then we are often comparing our lives to others causing communication issues in your relationship.
When you are forced to not talk to your partner regularly because of crazy schedules then we often resort to “word vomit” where we tell us much as we can to our partner in a short amount of time. Ultimately, it is overwhelming and results in both partners focusing on the logistics in your relationship instead of meaningful connection.
After this week, the price of the course is increasing. Take advantage of the lower price now.
Your relationship doesn’t have to be about logistics and disconnect. Instead, you can invest in your marriage and find a path to connection and better communication in just 20 minutes a day!
See where you stand as a communicator with this never before seen self-assessment quiz written by Cyndi, a licensed counselor, specifically for this course!
In addition to nightly homework pages, you will get a course workbook which will help you personalize your course experience.
Cyndi Doyle, LPC-S, NCC, CDWF, CCISM
Cyndi is a Licensed Professional Counselor who works in private practice specializing in counseling first responders and first responder couples. Cyndi is also the founder of Code4Couples®, which normalizes, educates, and empowers law enforcement couples through her personal experience as a veteran law enforcement wife and as a mental health clinician. She is passionate about law enforcement couples having connected and resilient relationships and shares her knowledge through her presentations, Code4Couples® podcast, and new book Hold the Line: The Essential Guide to Protect Your Law Enforcement Relationship.
Rebecca Lynn, M.Ed.
Rebecca Lynn is the founder of Proud Police Wife (.com), a nationally recognized blog, where she provides support, encouragement, education, and resources to law enforcement families. She is also the founder and host of the Annual Police Wife Conference, a virtual conference featuring highly sought after speakers and resources to law enforcement spouses internationally. Rebecca Lynn is the author of The Peacemaker’s Wife, A Journal for Reflection and Encouragement for Police Wives and Girlfriends and the author of Proud Police Wife: 90 Devotions for Women behind the Badge. She holds a degree in Psychology and Master’s Degree in Education. Rebecca’s husband has been in law enforcement for 15 years and they have three small children.
The simple answer: no. While Cyndi is a therapist, she is not your therapist. This course provides education about communication and relationships; it is not therapy.
You and your spouse/significant other have lifetime access to the course including any updates or changes to the course.
No. The course is self-paced but the content each day will take you anywhere from 30-60 minutes per day to complete. In the course we give you the tools to communicate with your partner in 20 minutes per day as we know time is not always on your side in this lifestyle.
It’s actually meant to thrive! Gain the tools and support to communicate effectively within your relationship AND form a deeper connection with your spouse starting today!
